Advice from a Wedding Photographer Serving South Coast MA, Cape Cod, and Newport RI

 

You’re engaged—congratulations! This is such an exciting season of life, and engagement session planning is one of the best ways to celebrate it. Whether you’re already dreaming up photo ideas or feeling unsure about what to expect, this guide will help you prep with confidence.

As a wedding photographer working throughout South Coast MA, Cape Cod, and Newport RI, I’ve photographed many engagement sessions—and helped couples go from nervous to completely at ease. This guide will walk you through everything: what to wear, where to shoot, how to personalize your session, and how to keep it stress-free.

What to Wear for Your Engagement Session

Choosing your outfits doesn’t have to be overwhelming. The key is to feel like yourselves, but your clothing should also complement the scenery and photograph well in natural light.

Here’s what I suggest:

• Stick with neutrals and earthy tones. Think cream, soft tan, olive, blush, muted blue, or black. These colors photograph beautifully and don’t compete with your surroundings.

• Avoid busy patterns, logos, and neon colors. They can be distracting and date your photos.

• Coordinate without matching. Choose outfits that complement each other in tone and style without being identical.

• Consider bringing two looks. One casual and one dressy gives you a mix of aesthetics and adds variety to your gallery.

• Invest in professional hair and makeup. Not only will it help you feel amazing, but it also ensures your look stays consistent and polished throughout the session. Check out Ciara from Cape Cod Glam and Ashley from All the Glam.

Choosing the Right Location

One of the most exciting parts of engagement session planning is choosing a location that fits your love story. Your location sets the tone for your entire session. Whether it’s a place filled with memories or somewhere new and inspiring, it should reflect your vibe as a couple.

Start by asking yourselves:

Do you want an adventurous setting or something cozy and low-key?

Are you drawn to city backdrops, nature, or something editorial?

Is there a place that holds special meaning—or one you’ve always wanted to visit together?

Ideas to consider:

• City streets and cobblestone alleys

• Your favorite pizza place, brewery, coffee shop or ice cream shop

• A scenic beach, park, or hiking trail

• Museum, art gallery or bookstore

• Your home for a lifestyle session

• A destination that’s on your bucket list

No matter where we go, I always help scout the best light and backdrop for your session. Whether you already have a location in mind or need help narrowing it down, I’ve got plenty of suggestions to help you find the perfect spot.

Destination Engagement Sessions

While most of my sessions take place in South Coast MA, Cape Cod, and Newport RI, I LOVE traveling for engagement sessions. From New Hampshire to California, I’ve photographed love stories in incredible places.

Have a dream destination or meaningful spot in mind? Let’s chat! If our schedules align, we might be able to plan a session outside our usual area. Travel fees may apply depending on the location.

 

Choose the Right Time of Day

Another important part of engagement session planning is picking the right time of day for beautiful, flattering light. Lighting is everything. The best time to shoot is during “golden hour,” which happens shortly after sunrise or before sunset. This is when the light is soft, warm, and naturally flattering.

For beach or wide-open locations, I recommend starting the session around 1h30m – 2hrs before sunset. If you’re going for a quieter, early morning session (especially in summer), sunrise sessions can be magical and offer privacy in more popular spots.

Bonus tip: If you’re unsure which time suits you best, I’ll help plan the timing based on your chosen location and the kind of light you’re going for.

 

Think Outside the Box – Make It Feel Like You

Now for the fun part. Want to know the secret to engagement photos that feel real, effortless, and deeply personal? I highly recommend incorporating something meaningful into your session—something that reflects your relationship and makes you feel at home with each other. Maybe it’s a shared activity, a favorite place, or a little moment that brings you joy.

Here are a few activity ideas to spark inspiration:

• Go for a boat ride or a classic car cruise

• Bring your bikes and explore a quiet path

• Take a swim at sunset (yes, even fully dressed!)

• Plan a champagne or wine picnic on the beach

• Kayak in a nearby bay or pond

• Bring a guitar or instrument you play

• Play a board game together in the sand or at a picnic table

• Hike to a scenic overlook and enjoy the view

• These aren’t just fun ideas—they create natural movement, real emotion, and beautiful in-between moments that make your gallery feel alive.

 

Add a Touch of Editorial Style

If you’re drawn to a more editorial or cinematic look (besides the natural posing I already incorporate), consider bringing a few simple, styled elements to elevate your session.

Here are some small touches that make a big impact:

• A bouquet of fresh flowers

• A cozy, textured blanket to sit on or wrap up in

• Champagne or sparkling water in glass flutes

• A wide-brimmed hat or stylish accessory

• A book you both love

• A vintage basket or tote with snacks or drinks

• This is your chance to dream a little and lean into aesthetics that feel true to your style. The goal isn’t to overdo it—it’s to layer in thoughtful details that enhance the moment.

 

 

Final Engagement Session Planning Tips to Keep It Stress-Free

• Eat before the session and stay hydrated

• Bring only essentials (I’ll carry your small items like phone and keys)

• Don’t stress about posing—I’ll guide you the entire way

• Have fun! The best photos come from real laughter and connection

 

Let’s Plan a Session That Feels Like You

Engagement session planning doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With the right outfits, location, and vibe, it can be a fun and meaningful part of your wedding journey. Your engagement session should be an experience that reflects your love story—not just a box to check off. Whether you’re envisioning a romantic beach shoot, an editorial city session, or a playful outdoor adventure, I’m here to help you bring it to life.

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📩 Ready to plan yours? Reach out to book your session or ask any questions. I can’t wait to hear what you’re dreaming up!